Leadership exercises are necessary for developing personal leadership for every aspect of your regular life; your relationships, at work or for becoming the leader of your friends. Becoming a leader will bring your personal life all kinds of social advantages and social value.
Have you ever met that guy who is naturally cool, who people want to be around of and basically leads the party wherever he goes? That’s the kind of guy who gets social success, so, here go 4 leadership exercises to practice and apply that leadership that will get you to where you want to be socially speaking.
Leaders are decisive; and being indecisive actually just makes you less of a leader. People can’t follow someone who doesn’t know what he wants, or someone who’s not convinced about his own decisions and ideas.
Decision making can be practiced whenever you need to make any kind decision, whether it’s a big or small decision, your decision-making ‘muscles’ get that bit of work if you put them to use.
Get used to making decisions all the time, make it a habit.
To practice this skill you must consciously train you own brain to naturally react this way.
Leading others comes in first place from the mindset of ‘I’m going THIS way and I make good decisions’, it comes FIRST from being on your path and fully trusting it. That’s when others will want to voluntarily follow you.
Don’t try to force others to go your way, rather, go your own way and show them the path. If you stop trying to force it, they’ll voluntarily want to follow you.
How convinced you seem of what you’re doing plays a HUGE role in leadership. Being unsure, obviously, does the opposite.
Being a leader is tiring, because making decisions and having people rely on those decisions is tiring. People love giving their willpower to a leader and just follow someone because it takes the pressure off them.
People love having the friend who makes plans for the night and they can just call him and he’ll tell them what to do. Because he already took the initiative and made plans.
This naturally and in the long run becomes magnetic for others, people want to be around a grounding energy that knows where it’s going. Just the kind of thing that will make you very socially successful.
Practicing your leadership through leadership exercises is a great way to get all these skills in line. Being a social leader is something that affects all areas of your life and will make you socially successful. Go out and get social.