So you want to know how to attract girls, this topic was basically what I started my journey with.
As a loner with no social skills, what I wanted the most was a girlfriend. I thought it would fix all my problems, and this is why I decided to start improvign socially through learning how to attract girls.
I searched the net and found dozens of sites, they were all from guys promising to change your life if you read their stuff or bought their book, and actually some of that stuff was real and some wasn't.
Becoming a man that attracts girls is not something that happens overnight. You should check out "the basics" for a more in depth analysis of what will make you attract girls effortless in the long run.
However, there's a lot of stuff that you can apply that seems almost magically effective.
You can actually make a few switches here and there and quickly notice how girls will start responding better and showing signs of attraction.
Here's what you can do to start attracting girls now and working on your girl skills with the right foot and get much better results in the short and long run.
Improving your Body Language:
The first thing I learned about was body language. This alone will get you great success – well – maybe not success but it sure generates a lot of attraction.
Women love confidence, and good body language displays confidence, even if you’re not all that confident yet.
Women will get a special vibe from you just from the way you're standing or moving.
Well, just like men mostly react to looks, women mostly react to confidence.
As men, when we see a girl with nice hair:
Reaction 2 is more likely to happen and like I said before, we won't even know why.
Same kind of deal will happen with women just if you have a confident body language. It's like an instant switch.
So, what is considered good body language?
Good body language displays confidence and self-trust:
I recommend you to learn what good body language looks like by observing guys like George Clooney or Brad Pitt.
Any confident guy will most likely have the same good body language traits, it's universal.
Confidence looks the same everywhere.
Making better Eye Contact:
Another thing that you might notice from these guys is that they have great eye contact.
Eye contact is SO important and SO basic when it comes to learning how to attract girls.
At first it might be hard, especially if you’re not used to it, but it is pretty important that you learn to hold good (not creepy) eye contact with a girl.
Learn more about making eye contact
Voice tone and changing your tonality:
A third one that is easy to control is voice tone. If you have a deep voice don’t be afraid to use it; a deep voice is a sign of testosterone, and girls prefer deeper voices over higher pitched voices
Any girl in the world will react with a "that's so sexy!" when a guy with a deep voice speaks.
In my case my voice is in-between. If you have a high-pitched
voice, don’t worry, just because girls prefer deep voices it doesn't mean they dislike high pitched ones.
Avoid stuttering, a good confident tone that comes without any stuttering is so much more important than the actual resonance of your voice.
Hand in hand with your voice tone is also your voice tonality.
Try to use a confident tonality, and don’t use an overly-nice tonality. You can divide tonalities as:
If you want to quickly generate attarction, your tonality should vary from neutral to breaking rapport, this causes a lot of attraction in women.
Remember to be acute with
these tips, you don't want to use a bossy tonality on someone who's havign a bad time.
These are some pretty easy to apply and basic tips that you can
start using to learn how to attract girls.
Be flexible, it'ok to break some of these rules sometimes.
In the long run being relaxed is much more important than "holding a confident posture" for example, but the whole point is to start improving your confidence so that all these withs come naturally to you.
Try them and learn how to attract girls, remember to have fun with it! Go out and get social!
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