Having lots of fun date ideas, is the perfect way to get rid of any excuses you might have as to why you’re not going out on dates. As a shy guy who’s an expert in the Social Success world, you probably already know that you have to get out here and get those social experiences that will help you gain more confidence and become more outgoing and ultimately the person you want to be.
An enormous chunk of this ‘whole social success thing’ is getting to that supreme level of confidence around the ladies, we all want it, and at some point it was probably the reason this whole journey began.
All you need is the experience, start asking those girls out and burn the boats. No excuses, you don’t have to plan majestic dates, you could just go for the traditional ‘let’s grab some drinks’ and it’ll serve you just as good as any other date.
But then again, that why you’re here, right? You want to try different date settings and need some help with the ideas of how you could you probably give this date a twist and make it cooler. So here you go; 41 ideas for a fun date that will help you never run out of things to do.
So many dates happen indoors that we oftentimes forget of the potential fun of any outdoor date, going outdoors adds a unique experience to any date and it will certainly mark a difference in their mind from what she’s used to.
Outdoor dates will usually involve much more physical contact than just sitting on opposite ends of a table, and, physical contact is important to build comfort for more physical contact in the future.
It’s that typical played out movie date, but sincerely, how many times have you actually taken a girl out on a picnic date? It’s not only fun but it’s actually one of those fun and cheap dates. A pretty good combination if you ask me.
Going stargazing is a night date where you can just talk and chill outside at night with a purpose. First, learn the name of a few stars and then, you can pretend to be an expert astronomer while also having an amazing date.
Isn’t paintball like the best sport ever? Not every girl will be into it but, if she is, it could probably the first time someone has taken her on a paintball date. Just try not to aim for the face or other sensible areas.
Fun is so many times about just letting your inner child come out, most times people are so stifled, uptight and nervous about the whole dating process that the guy who is successfully brings out the childish and fun side of her will surely be the one to score.
And it is the guys who really understand that being childish, fun and carefree does wonders and the ones that will usually win over the guys that are thinking “But I did everything right! Why does she like that guy?”, at some point we’ve all been that guy, it’s time to master being on the other side.
Illegal? Maybe. Fun? Of course! No, seriously don’t do anything illegal. But if you were to do it, it would be the most awesome and fun date you both would ever have.
Contraire to the popular belief, girls are not only interested in nail polish and lipstick, I have a bunch of female friends who have a lot of fun playing guitar her or just singing, it’s just a great fun date idea.
How long has it been since you’ve grabbed some crayons, a coloring book and just rocked those drawings with some mad ‘staying-inside-the-line’ skills, women will be massively impressed. Seriously, think about it
You: Hey, come color some coloring books at my place.
You: Yes, a coloring book.
It’s just hilarious, fun, and makes up for a unique and fun date idea and some good conversation. Plus, you’d already be at your place.
On some level it is the uniqueness what we are looking for to stand out, in reality, it is a great idea to be unique, it will for sure make you stand out. However, whenever you make too much of an effort to impress her it will usually blow up in your face, unless she’s your girlfriend or something, you should focus on showing your uniqueness based on your own fun and on sharing such fun with her.
Think of it this way: Become a giver, have fun on your own and share your fun with her. Don’t be a taker, don’t plan something just to get that emotional kick from the way she reacts. This fine line becomes much wider with experience and here are some ideas you can apply.
What could be more awesome than having a good date and drinking some beer? How about having a good date and drinking some FREE beer, while I’m not sure if you’ll be able to drink it right after brewing is, as I actually think it’s a long process, it’s a fun date idea that surely no one has invited her to try. You can find some beer brewing kits online
Just imagine this invitation ‘hey, I want to build the most amazing 24 hour snapchat story ever, come help me out’. This of course needs a lot more planning and visiting places than any other idea, but it is as fun as it sounds.
You could always do the typical swimming + biking + running, or you could switch it up with a donut eating competition + a game of monopoly + a staring competition. Your choice, be creative and fun.
While my idea of romanticism is that of guys chasing girls around with boomboxes playing love songs, and I don’t recommend that at all. I do recognize that some of you guys out there like the romantic approach better and while it’s obviously not as extreme as the boombox example, you can try practicing the whole area of making it clear that you are attracted to her and that ‘hey! This is a date!’ with these ideas.
This is just my kind of fun date ideas, just picturing the whole situation makes me want to fall in love… uhh, anyway, you get it; it’s a lot of fun.
Whether you’re a wine expert or have no idea what you’re doing (like me), learning about this kind of things pays off at some point in life. Plus it’s an idea for a great evening that could lead to more partying later.
Just like the picnic idea but at night, it has Dawson’s creek written all over it, one of those specials for the romantic guys.
These fun date ideas will take away any excuse related to ‘not knowing what to do’, you could just mix them up and do as many as you want on one single date. Just remember, what is mainly important for the less socially experienced guys is to build that confidence and comfort in this area, and you’ll only get any of those skills through experiencing them.
Whether it is any of the fun date ideas above that you want to try or just go for a couple drinks to just make it all much simpler, you will only get this area of your life through living it, and the short cut is doing it in a smart manner. Go out and get social.
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