Body language signs are a very basic aspect of socializing. The topic of body language opens up an interesting can of worms. Your body language; like it or not will tell people who you are and how you’re feeling.
This happens almost accidentally, it’s hard to hide the truth behind your movements, your eye contact, or the way you walk.
I’ll make that quote even longer and say “your body language is a window to your mind”, well, maybe it's not the most poetic quote ever made.
What this means is that if you’re feeling confident, scared, insecure, or cool, then your body language will reflect your internal state.
Knowing that people will feel who you are off you determined on what they see from your body language, you can actually start portraying all the right things and make other people perceive you in the best way possible.
You don’t see confident body language and go through a check list in your mind to realize that what you’re seeing in fact is confident body language signs. It’s one of those things that our most basic human nature allows us to simply recognize.
Faking “good” body language is not as easy as just doing it, it feels awkward to have for example a confident posture if you’re used to slouching all the time, same happens with all other body language signs.
The trick is to slowly but surely start integrating all the body language sings that will tell the positive things about you that you’d want others to see.
Focus on one of these things, work on it until you’re able to feel some comfort with it and then drop it and work on another one.
The knowledge of how body language signs work, what can you do with them and how it affects others is awesome, but when you’re out there socializing; it’s not a good idea to always be thinking about it.
So, work on it for a while and then drop it, it’ll slowly but surely stick with you.
As much as your body language affects others on their concept of you, it also affects the way you feel about yourself.
It actually flips cause and effect, for example: If you’re feeling confident, your body will start displaying this confident body language.
On the flip side, if you start doing confident body language, your mind will start feeling confident. It’s one of those awesome thingas about human nature and the way we’ve evolved.
Here’s a Great Video on the topic:
If you’re interested in understanding body language in general for social connection purposes, then you can just recognize the most basic body language signs and learn how to interpret them.
Stances, hesitation, fiddling, rambling, stuttering, arm positions... All these are signs that represent something and they all come from one of the most basic natural human social rules.
The right body language can also represent better opportunities with the opposite sex, body language is your presentation card.
Using the right body language differentiates a good start from a bad start in your interactions with girls; it’s all about what you show her.
So to get a more in-depth analysis of it and what's the correct body language to use with girls, check this article out:
You can also learn to identify a girl’s signs of attraction for you. Learn from the most obvious to the most subtle body language signs that a girl displays when she’s attracted to you.
Incredibly powerful and easy to learn, reading a girl’s body language is something you must learn when first starting to work on your skills with girls.