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Body Language Signs of Attraction

The ability of reading a woman's body language signs of attraction is an awesome tool, you can basically know if this woman is attracted to you or not only by reading her body language signs of attraction.

Every guy who is good at attracting women to some extent knows how to recognize all the signals her body is sending out about whether she’s interested or not.

A Word of Notice:

If you want to attract women, you should first know that attraction is generated by your own actions, and precisely being reactive to what a woman says or does is actually unattractive.

What is attraction?

Over-focusing on reading body language signs of attraction is a bad thing. Constantly looking at where someone else is standing to decide where you should stand is unattractive mainly because it’s unassertive, reaction-seeking and it communicates that you give the other person more value than you give yourself.

Use your ability to read body language signs of attraction to know where to tweak your actions; don’t use your ability to read body language to make your entire plan.

Body Language Signs of Attraction - What signs will she show?

Women will unconsciously send out many signals when they’re attracted to someone, it all happens unconsciously and most times she’s not even aware of what she’s doing.

The explanation?

You could just say we evolved this way, most of her body language will change to enhance her attractiveness in your eyes and she won’t even know she’s doing it.

Hair Flipping:

It’s actually the most basic one if you may call it that, almost instantaneously when a girl feels attracted to a man, she will start flipping her hair or playing with it. Undoing a pony tail, spinning it with her finger, brushing with her hands, etc.

You can immediatly smile and know that "it's on" when this happens.

Exposing their Necks:

Almost as a direct consequence of hair flipping, necks start being exposed. This is also one of the most basic signs that she’s attracted to you.

Once a woman starts playing and flipping her hair she’ll take her long hair and place it on one of her shoulders revealing her neck.

Both hair tossing or flipping and neck exposure usually happen in the initial stages of an interaction with a girl.

Bra Adjustment:

You could say that playing with her hair and showing her neck didn’t make much sense, but adjusting a bra makes perfect sense when it comes to a sign of a woman trying to make herself more attractive.

This one happens a lot less than the basic hair and neck ones but it happens fairly common, especially if the girl has short hair, well duh.

Eye Contact:

As some guys call it; the “anime eyes”. Big fat awesome eye contact is a pretty obvious sign of attraction, if you pay attention close enough, you can see her pupils dilating as you speak.

Pupil dilation is one of those natural reactions her body will have and she won’t be able to control. On the flip side, you really don’t want to be paying attention to whether her pupils are dilating or not, good eye contact is more than enough.

You’ll get it that a girl wants you when you notice that “uncomfortable” extra second of eye contact, that’s called flirting if you didn’t already know that.

Combine eye contact with a smile and you’ve got yourself an invitation to “please come talk to me”.

Learn how to make GOOD eye Contact.

Women are Incredibly Aware of their Bodies:

Let me repeat that: Women are incredibly aware of their bodies.

Knowing that, you can now be sure that there’s no such thing as “accidental” body contact.

If she taps you on the shoulder, if she grabs your arm, if he touches your leg, if she grabs your leg, if her leg “accidentally” starts touching yours; she KNOWS it’s there.

This is a pretty obvious sign of attraction and also a pretty common one, it usually happens early in the interaction with the girl, once you’re talking with her, she will show her attraction by finding any excuse to touch you.

Laughing at your jokes:

Unless you’re a pretty funny guy; most of your jokes or stories won't get too many laughs.

However, when a girl is interested in you, you will seem a lot funnier to her. It might even throw you off that she's laughing when what you're saying isn’t even that funny.

Girls like guys that makes them laugh but, the tricky side is that if they already like a guy they will find him much funnier even if he’s not.

All these signs are all over the place, but you only start noticing them after you learned that they exist. You might even have received a bunch and never noticed them.

If you want to see it happen from a spectator point of view, just look at a girl’s reaction when a cool guy shows up, you’ll see all those body language signs of attraction things happen naturally.

Have a Little Fun with It:

I sure did a few social experiments when I first started working on becoming cooler, more social and more attractive to women.

A fun social experiment is to cause all those natural body language signs of attraction to happen in any given girl.

Use your own body language to make girls shown you all those signs of attraction, learn more about making your own body language attractive.

Learn about it here.

In the long run you want all of these signs you get from reading her body language to fall into your unconscious mind. When interacting with women you don’t want to be in a logical head space, her body language should just give you small cues so that you can tweak what you’re doing and get best results.

Remember, Confidence Beats All:

It doesn’t matter if you have bad body language, it doesn’t matter if she’s not giving you good signals; all that matters is your belief in yourself and your actions. Confidence will always plow through any of those things, so, don’t stress about not getting any signals when reading her body language signs of attraction.

Your focus when learning should on doing what has to be done regardless of circumstances, everything else will take care of itself it you’re doing the right thing. Go out and get Social.

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